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33M, every girl rejects me for being short. Losing hope
Good job, own house, no bad habits. 5 foot 4. That last line seems to cancel the rest every single time.
Rejected again this week, the only feedback passed on was height. I cant change it and I am tired of it being the whole story.
Is height really this big a filter for most women, or am I just hitting a bad run? Could use some honesty and maybe some hope today.
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The feedback is lazy, height is just the easy word when something softer did not click. Dont take it as the whole verdict.
Honest answer, some filter on it hard, many dont once they meet you and feel safe and seen. Confidence shifts this a lot.
Bad run plus a biased filter, not a life sentence. The woman who is right wont blink at 5 4. Hang in there mate.
My husband is shorter than me in heels. Best decision of my life. The ones who filtered you out saved your time.
Meet more in person and fewer on paper. Your odds flip the moment it is a face and a conversation, not a stat line.
Own house, good job, no bad habits, kind. That is a strong profile. The height crowd is not your crowd, keep going.
Lead with your warmth and humour in the profile and first chat. Women choosing on vibe outnumber the height checkers.
Do not let a dropdown menu convince you that you are less. In person you are a whole person, not a number.
Height loses to presence in person. Online it is a checkbox, offline it is forgotten in ten mins of good conversation.
Plenty of women do not care about height, I am one. The matrimony filter overweights it, real life in person does not.